Dallas Voice (Dallas, Tex.), Vol. 23, No. 22, Ed. 1 Friday, October 13, 2006 Page: 44 of 80
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Husband-
hunting
at the gym
Got the hots for married muscle?
Can you say, 'needless drama
workout'?
Dear Candy,
So I'm on the treadmill at the gym when I
notice in the mirror that a really hot guy keeps
checking out my "form." I have seen him
around, but more than once I've overheard him
talking to others about his wife and kids and
other non-gay subjects.
The gym is predominantly straight, but I
know a few other 'mos who workout there, and
we all act more like jocks than seemingly effem-
inate men.
I've done nothing to encourage Mr. Married,
but must say that I'm entertaining the idea. He
may not be consciously aware he's cruising me,
but on some level he's interested.
I'm thinking about asking him
to get a drink after we work out
but want to do it in a non-threat-
ening way — in case he knee-
jerks into denial. Got a better idea
for a response that says I'm inter-
ested?
— Nuts 4 Straight
Dear Nuts,
I have faith in your analysis of
the married man at the gym. And
kudos for asking him out. The
part that puzzles me is your
desire to chase a married guy.
With all the gay men in the world who are
happy and confident in their sexual orientation,
you zone in on a man who presents his sexual
orientation in a befuddled manner. What's that
about?
Some people need drama and excitement in
order to feel alive. Maybe you're wired that way.
But find a healthier way to bring oomph into
your life.
You risk rejection by the married man. You
risk having your character and reputation dam-
aged if the married man complains to the man-
agement about your advance (regardless of its
benign nature). You may find yourself avoiding
the gym — a place you value — because you've
made it uncomfortable by asking this man out.
You sound like a smart guy. Use your intelli-
gence to bring meaning into your life that lifts
you up — not bring you down. Good luck.
Candy Marcum Counselor's Corner
Dear Candy,
I'm 40 years old. In the past eight months,
I've lost my mom to cancer and my dog to old
age. I also ended my a loving relationship when
it finally became apparent we weren't compati-
ble enough to continue any longer.
I'm ready to date and I'm open to a new rela-
tionship. But I'm scared of making a mistake,
and I can't bear any more heartache right now.
For the next relationship, I feel I need to
invest my emotions wisely. How can I achieve a
greater chance of success in a relationship from
the very beginning?
— Beginning Again
ear Beginning,
You've experienced a series
of significant losses. Just one of
these — the loss of a mother,
the death of longtime pet and
the end of a committed relation-
ship — can bring us to our
knees. Combining all these
losses within one year can only
be described as "trauma."
Trauma presents itself as the
emotion of fear. It's not surpris-
ing that you are scared of mak-
ing a mistake.
It hurts when relationships end — whether
through death or through choice.
I commend you for wanting to face your
fears and enter the dating world again. But be
open to dating several people. Introduce your
dates to your friends, and listen to your
friend's feedback.
Most importantly, take the time to analyze
and understand what went wrong with your
last relationship. What lessons were revealed
to you and what did you learn from them?
It's OK to be scared. And it's OK to reen-
ter the arena of dating — as long as you are
knowledgeable about life's lessons. If you do
not learn the lessons from your past relation-
ship, you are doomed to repeat the same mis-
takes. Good luck.
Candy Marcum is a licensed professional
counselor in private practice in Dallas.
E-mail QearCandyLeft0rs0Sol:cpm
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Nash, Tammye. Dallas Voice (Dallas, Tex.), Vol. 23, No. 22, Ed. 1 Friday, October 13, 2006, newspaper, October 13, 2006; Dallas, Texas. (https://digital.library.unt.edu/ark:/67531/metapth238930/m1/44/: accessed April 19, 2024), University of North Texas Libraries, UNT Digital Library, https://digital.library.unt.edu; crediting UNT Libraries Special Collections.